Having some control is not a bad thing; trying to control something or somebody over which I have no control is what is dysfunctional.
Se, että minulla on vähän valtaa, ei ole huono asia; mutta on vahingollista, jos yritän kontrolloida jotakin, jonka suhteen minulla ei ole mitään valtaa.
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